Truth or Lies

" To be honest with you" why do people say this? does this mean they are lying to you all the other times? i know people say they want to hear the truth but do they really. the old saying truth from the mouths of babe{babies}. you see children will always tell the truth until they are taught not to. parents say; that's not nice' you shouldn't say that, that was mean. have you ever had your friend ask you to tell them the truth and you lied not to hurt thier feelings? i know guys we feel we have to lie about how our wives/girlfriends look on certain occasions. how does this look on me? we lie because if we want to get a little something we had better right? girls you to think you must lie to get what you want, yeah sweetie you can watch the game, you can hang out with the boys etc etc. why must we do this. if we care about each other than dang it tell the truth. i have developed this philosophy of " dont ask me a question if you dont want to hear the truth" it has hurt some peoples feelings and almost gotten me hurt but it what i do. i am truly honest all the time heck no i am no fool!! i just bend the truth so it doesn't hurt me so much :) i try to but you can read the person to see if they really want to know the truth. the truth can be told you just have to put a little spin on it so it seems as a positive rather than a negative. try it and see how it works out.

Truth shall set you free
Truth will get you hurt
Lying will get you something special for awhile
Lying will get you killed
Wow, which do you choose?

I am back

It has been many years since I have poated anything. So much has happened as you well know> i wish I had thre time to tell you everything but neither you or I have the time to read it all. I just want to say that if you are reading this I thank you and you are oart of my story. I will try to get back to doing at least weekly posts or as before when the moments happen. Life hasn't slowed down with life issues bur i feel some of the thinhs have made me more wiser and some seemed to hinder my growth. More to come Rev Smitty

The Search

The search continues, what search you may ask? The search for the reason(s) why you must endure the pain that is bestowed upon you at this moment. I don't think anyone really has an answer as to how to continue or end the search. The beginning point is always with you, we all know this but this also the hardest part because we actually have to look at ourselves. The answer(s)are there. I had written an earlier statement about accepting ones responsibilities but this is in a different format. This is about the pain that is happening because know the cause yet we just dont know where to actually get the answers. We started with looking at ourselves, we know the problems, we know what the answer(s) should be but..... It is because of this (but) they we lose the

Rev Smitty's Run Ons: Goodbye#links

Rev Smitty's Run Ons: Goodbye#links

Goodbye

How do you say goodbye to someone you don't ( didn't ) want to leave. Your heart is empty but heavy, your soul is wandering, you feel lost. I didnt want you to go and I know you must leave but it doesnt change things. Your destiny is what it is, some things we can change others can not. I know it was not your choice One day we will all have to make a this choice but it doesnt make it easier. The love that was shared can never be replaced nor should it. The moments spent together was ( is ) one in a million. The impact you have made upon me was surprising deep even though I couldnt resist. Everyday I wrap myself in knowing that no one can touch my heart and soul as you have done. So is this goodbye or farewell until we meet again? Time says it is farewell but it feels like goodbye, so how do I say goodbye? I dont!!!


Farewell

How Do I ??

How do I help when the words are only words? The pain you are feeling is only one you can feel. I want to tell you all will be okay but who the hell knows when that will happen. I want you to know that you have touched many in your lifetime and more to come, all of them are definitely been blessed by your tenderness you have shown to them. Those who know you will feel your pain even if they dont know how to show you. Words are just words when spoken without the heart being attached. How do I let you know my words are filled with all the love my heart can give? How do I tell you that you are so important in my life? How do I tell you that on the days when I feel lost, your words are all that I need to make it thru the day? How do I let you know that life is full of pain but remembering the joys are the ones that count? How do I give you the same comfort you have given me on sooo many occasions? How do I help? I guess I can only say the words that I LOVE YOU!! How do I put the blanket of comfort around you from afar? Close your eyes and think of all the joys you have had in your life and you will feel my (blanket) of comfort surrounding you. How do I show you I am here to cry to, to yell at, to let you be you, to let you learn to walk again, to be the rock you can leave on but also the rock you need to toss your words on? I do it thru these words for now, when I see you again you will see my actions. Pain is the other side of joy, to know JOY you must also know Pain. You must have both to know when you one or the other. I will share your pain if you will let me. Time heals all wounds but the scars will remain how you deal with them on a daily basis is up to you. One NEW day at a time!!!

How Do I?

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