Growing in oneself is a very scary at times. The growth that you seek is not always accepted by the people who surround you. The growth must be for yourself not for them. I know this personally for I have grown in so many ways this past year and believe me there were times when I second guessed myself. The supposedly friends did not like to accept change so they wanted me to stay the same as them. I am sure all of you have had this happen to you, what did you do? fold to thier wishes or did you move on without them? I hoped you made your decsion to move on without them. As I have said before true friends will let you grow. Be you for you!!